Hasil jepretan Earth Hour

Mau lihat hasil Earth Hour yang lalu (28/3), ketika berhasil diabadikan oleh Photographer dunia. Sungguh bagus sekali termasuk Jakarta (nomor 16)

http://www.boston. com/bigpicture/ 2009/03/earth_ hour_2009. html

The Disadvantages of Love at the First Sight

Every person must have been in love in those lives. Love itself is something that cannot be described with logical reasons. A man might love a woman   because he meets her frequently at the same location such as restaurant, school, etc, and finally they fall in love. On the other hand, another man loves a girl when he sees her at the first time known as “Love at the First Sight”. Nevertheless, from the experiences of the love experts, this type of love has three disadvantages when it happens for real.

The first advantage is lack of knowing her personality.  If a man loves a woman at the first sight, it can be fixed that he does not know her at all. He might love her because she is beautiful, smart-looking and charming but it is important to realize that everybody has dark sides. There is a big possibility that her dark sides may make him disappointed. The referred dark sides are like crypto mania, lying behavior, drug addicts, etc.

Secondly, since we were children, we knew a phrase that is called “puppy love”. This love is just temporary, and it influences someone a lot such as his habits when it is in “active phase”. For example, if a man loves a woman, his love probably just lasts a month. After his love finishes, he will never attends the woman again. This “puppy love” is found usually at the age of 15 to 25, but there are possibilities that it can influence everyone who are in love.

The last advantage is about maturity. The maturity of a person is also judged from how he cherishes love in its l      llife. A man who loves at the first sight must frequently love different women while he is in other places. If a man likes to change lovers frequently, then he is an immature man even though he is 30 years old. There is a theory that says, “Love is complicated, so it needs maturity to understand it”, and it is 100% true.

In the end, It is very important to keep rational and careful when you start to love someone because “all is fair in love and war”, and it means that everything can happen. From the writing, it can be concluded that Love at the First Sight is also a challenge for those who are bored with true love.

DOING WHAT YOU LOVE OR LOVING WHAT YOU DO?

In this life, you have to work to answer their demand such as food, house, etc. There are two choices of the principle of work, doing what you love and loving what you do. Doing what you love means that you work on a sector that you love, for example, a person who likes painting works as a painter, etc. Loving what you do means that you do not have to work on a field that you love as long as you enjoy it or you look it as a job that makes a great benefit. There are three considerations to help you decide what types of work that you will go through.

Firstly, it is about talent. Every person must have their own abilities and talents. Doing what you love means doing something that becomes your interest, and generally, the interest comes because you have talent in it. For example, a man has a talent in painting, and he becomes a painter. In matter of fact, he will love what he does, and definitely he will produce great paintings. On the other hand, loving what you do means doing a job that is compulsory, and you like it as the time goes by. For example, a non-graduated man becomes a mechanic because he doesn’t get any better jobs. At first, he doesn’t understand anything about repairing cars, but he gets more experiences day by day when he repairs many kinds of cars. At last, he enjoys working as a mechanic because he feels that he is good at repairing cars. In this case, he loves what he does.

Secondly, talent will not succeed without will. It is very important to have talent and will in doing something in your life. It is a useless thing if you have an ability to finish a job, but you do not have a will to do it. Will comes from interest of a job. There are big possibilities that you have a will to do a job if you love it, so it can be sure that the job will be finished with a good result. For example, a man has a talent for playing music, and he gets a job as a musician at a café. It can be sure that all the café’s visitors will be entertained with his beautiful performances.

Lastly, compared to the previous reasons, this reason might sound funny, and it is about your imagination in your old age. Every person must have ever imagined their image about themselves in their old ages. Loving what you do or doing what you love influences your image, and dreams in your old age because basically it influences your will and your talent. For example, there was a young engineer who was brilliant at the construction of buildings. One day, he imagined that in his old age, he would have a big house, much money, and a great respect as a senior head of engineers, so he worked hard as an engineer to fulfill his dreams. In this case, he mixed his will and his talent to fulfill his dreams because he loved what he did.

In my opinion, there are many ways to make a success of your career, and you must be wise to decide what way you are going to choose because you are the person who will shape your own future. Do not stop making creations in your life!